Clarity & Calm: Understand what drives conflict and learn how to stay centred, even when emotions run high.
Practical Tools: Get expert strategies to manage communication, avoid costly legal escalation, and protect your peace.
Thriving Future: Build a foundation for healthier co-parenting and long-term emotional and financial wellbeing.
Overnight Transformation...
With expert guidance by Kara Ockendon, Collaborative Family Law Facilitator & Coach you will be equipped with insights, tools, and strategies to reduce conflict, make wiser decisions, and begin consciously planning your next chapter overnight! For a limited time just $48.50 (Code Thrive50 - until 4 Oct 2025)
$97.00
Your post-separation peace is priceless....
And yet for less than the cost of a single lawyer’s consultation, you can access a complete roadmap to reduce conflict, protect your peace, and create your own Thriving Divorce.
Take your first step towards a peaceful parting today...
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Meet Your Guide
Hi, I’m Kara, founder of Thriving Divorce & Separation (LLB (Hons), BAPsychSc, Collaborative Family Law Facilitator & Certified Conscious Uncoupling Coach™). With over a decade in family law and a deep understanding of holistic practice, I help individuals and couples navigate separation with clarity, compassion, and confidence. Having experienced both high-conflict divorce as a child and my own conscious uncoupling, I know the emotional and financial challenges first-hand. This program distils my professional expertise and lived insight into a practical, supportive pathway so you can stay grounded, reduce conflict, and create a thriving post-separation future for yourself and your family.. For more information on the services and offerings of Thriving Divorce & Separation, please visit www.thrivingdivorceandseparation.au
Protect Your Peace. Protect Your Children. Protect Your Future.
Separation is hard, but it doesn’t have to define your future. Gain the insights and practical steps to transform your separation journey and begin building a thriving new chapter. 50% off for a limited time - $48.50 (Code Thrive50 until 4 October 2025)
$97.00
What People Are Saying
Read how this course is making a difference and helping individuals navigate break-ups, separation and divorce!
“I recently discovered Kara’s Avoiding Post Separation Conflict course. I wish I had the benefit of this course 6 years ago when I first separated from my son’s mother. I think it would have a big difference and even now I can see the things we are both doing wrong and that there are things I need to let go off. I am now aware that I am still in protect mode and guarded and this is impacting our parenting relationship and my capacity to form new long-term romantic partners. I can now move forward with fresh perspective. Fighting and destroying each other's piece of mind and financial wellbeing hurts all involved, including any children, and is not going to change the outcome. It’s not about winning, but moving forward and learning.”
Bega, NSW (23 July 2024)
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“I recently had the opportunity to receive the benefit of Kara's Avoiding Post Separation Conflict course. My own separation hasn't exactly been smooth and I have been navigating the Court system with respect parenting matters for over 2 years. Looking back, if I had known about this course Kara provides, on the emotional rollercoaster of breakups and its impact - not just on us, but especially on the kids - I truly believe things could be different today."
Brisbane, Qld (18 July 2024)
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I’m currently navigating a high-conflict Family Court process and it’s been a challenging journey. I have found so much comfort in what Kara offers, especially with her legal background. I used to approach things in a combative, defensive perspective, but since embracing conscious uncoupling, I’ve been able to find my centre and shift my mindset. Things that used to bother me about my co-parent no longer have power over me. Even when treated unfairly, I now approach situations with full authenticity, which has helped break down some barriers between us. At first I had to ‘fake it until you make it’ as being the bigger person felt uncomfortable. I’ve learned that it only takes one person to calm the waters and create change.
Moreton Bay, Qld (20 May 2024)
I truly wish Kara’s Avoiding Post Separation Conflict course had been available back in the days when I was going through some pretty messy break-ups. I have absolutely no doubt that the “uncoupling” process would have been a lot less traumatic for everyone concerned, including the children involved and families on both sides, had at least one of us, and, ideally, both had access to the information and uncoupling skills Kara details. She has applied and integrated her own personal and professional knowledge to Katherine Woodward Thomas’ ground-breaking work on Conscious Uncoupling in a novel way, making her course more relevant to Attachment Theory, and delivered it in a very smooth and easy to understand way. Highly recommended for anyone in a relationship. Even if you’re not Breaking Up.
Nanango, Qld (4 September 2024)
“I recently discovered Kara’s Avoiding Post Separation Conflict course. I wish I had the benefit of this course 6 years ago when I first separated from my son’s mother. I think it would have a big difference and even now I can see the things we are both doing wrong and that there are things I need to let go off. I am now aware that I am still in protect mode and guarded and this is impacting our parenting relationship and my capacity to form new long-term romantic partners. I can now move forward with fresh perspective. Fighting and destroying each other's piece of mind and financial wellbeing hurts all involved, including any children, and is not going to change the outcome. It’s not about winning, but moving forward and learning.”
Bega, NSW (23 July 2024)
I’m currently navigating a high-conflict Family Court process and it’s been a challenging journey. I have found so much comfort in what Kara offers, especially with her legal background. I used to approach things in a combative, defensive perspective, but since embracing conscious uncoupling, I’ve been able to find my centre and shift my mindset. Things that used to bother me about my co-parent no longer have power over me. Even when treated unfairly, I now approach situations with full authenticity, which has helped break down some barriers between us. At first I had to ‘fake it until you make it’ as being the bigger person felt uncomfortable. I’ve learned that it only takes one person to calm the waters and create change.
Moreton Bay, Qld (20 May 2024)
“I recently had the opportunity to receive the benefit of Kara's Avoiding Post Separation Conflict course. My own separation hasn't exactly been smooth and I have been navigating the Court system with respect parenting matters for over 2 years. Looking back, if I had known about this course Kara provides, on the emotional rollercoaster of breakups and its impact - not just on us, but especially on the kids - I truly believe things could be different today."
Brisbane, Qld (18 July 2024)
I truly wish Kara’s Avoiding Post Separation Conflict course had been available back in the days when I was going through some pretty messy break-ups. I have absolutely no doubt that the “uncoupling” process would have been a lot less traumatic for everyone concerned, including the children involved and families on both sides, had at least one of us, and, ideally, both had access to the information and uncoupling skills Kara details. She has applied and integrated her own personal and professional knowledge to Katherine Woodward Thomas’ ground-breaking work on Conscious Uncoupling in a novel way, making her course more relevant to Attachment Theory, and delivered it in a very smooth and easy to understand way. Highly recommended for anyone in a relationship. Even if you’re not Breaking Up.
Nanango, Qld (4 September 2024)
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Important Programs Notes
This is a content in this program is derived from a previous live group intake this offering. It consists of Video & Audio recordings together with Written Modules (with referencing), Self Coaching Prompts for each Module and Supporting Resources. This program is designed for individuals and couples with a functional level of physical and mental wellbeing. It does not replace legal advice, therapy, or professional mental health care. If you are experiencing active violence, coercion, or significant mental-health challenges, please seek professional support first. (e.g., 000, 1800RESPECT, Lifeline 13 11 14).